if you want people to know, then go ahead, but it shouldn't mean shit to most people because they aren't living your life, and it doesn't matter to their lives if you want to fuck someone or dress and act a certain way as long as you aren't gonna hurt anyone or take away anyone's rights or anything like that.This qualitative study investigates the nature of commitment in long-lasting mixed-orientation relationships, in which a homosexual man is partnered with a heterosexual woman. coming out isn't a necessity, nor is finding a label for yourself, and it's shitty that people make it out that way. just enjoy things for what they are and people for who they are and live how you wanna live. if you know what you want and who you want to be, you don't need a name for it or a reason why or a way to explain it to people. people are becoming so obsessed with identities and pride culture that they end up forcing people to spend way too much time trying to figure out what to call themselves and what other people think of them. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who are exploring themselves?ĭont feel like you have to feel anything but what you actually feel and not being ashamed doesn't mean you have to make your whole life / personality revolve around your sexuality or gender or anything.
No they had one in my city yesterday but i didnt want to go and i was working anywayģ0. No, i think about getting a ring sometimes but not because im proud of it, just cause its a dog whistle for anyone in the know and in that way itll make meeting people in the know way easierĢ9. also im really pissed about how different singing normally is from singing in rock band but im actually really good at singing in rock band anyway I'm really proud of how my singing has improved but i never want to sing in front of anyone. I don't know what that means either so i'll just say neitherĢ7. have you ever dated anyone of the same sex? Someone who fuckin was really nice and supportive and totally on board with my likes and hobbies and i would try my best to do the same in returnĢ3. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be? Yeah just my face but i'd rather have a nice beard bc it covers up my baby face and actually makes me look like a real human beingĢ0. No bc i have like 1% tiddie and that's just cause i'm fat. I mean if you can even apply that to dudes then i don't really have a choice but to be very large and fat / muscular No thanks but (lewd) the only explicitly sexual scenarios i can imagine myself in and be like "ok that's not so bad" are ones that involve me the least and are more about the other person, but (more lewd) if we're honest here i'm really fuckin down for very sensual stuff that doesnt include the genits though i'd probably be embarrassed still I tell myself i am and then i get into these really bad moments where im legitimately angry at myself and my whole existence so ill leave that up to you idek how they're supposed to represent the different stuff Idk i don't like pride that much and besides that they're all just sort of random color palettes. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise? I don't really care about any celebrities besides musicians but there are a few under appreciated gay people i look up toġ3. I'm pissed that i slept so much and also the last three days have just been me feeling infinitely anxious and depressed and wondering what i did to deserve feeling so unwelcome in my own lifeġ2.
When i was doing my regular internet research and came across articles describing what sexual attraction meant and instantly i felt completely alien to the concept as i had never felt that way in my life, so then i was just like "hmm shit" Well i mean primarily i'd try to find ways to avoid the various longstanding mental instabilities that have plagued me for the majority of my life but then also i'd explain what asexuality actually means so that i could understand and either just be openly out from the beginning or get in the closet sooner so i wouldn't have dug so many holesĭon't know what this means and im too lazy to look it up
what do you wish you could tell your past self? none of them know explicitly though i heard my parents talking about it onceĤ. Idfk my bro's been in a relationship for like 8 years and only came out to like three of them and they were all okay with it except for my mom's little bit of bi discourse shit but understandably asexuality is more difficult for normies to understand and i don't feel like spending an hour explaining it to each person in my family individually so it's just like.